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Although it’s not what the dating sites want you to do, following this rule will spare you the type of date I describe in Rule #14, where the man has mentally checked out before his first beer. I call the DZ a “sandwich” date because you will sandwich it in between other activities, such as working out or meeting friends for dinner.
This has several benefits, not the least of which is that a man is likely to ask you out again, for a proper date, if you limit the time spent in this initial meeting.
While the starting point for my advice is The Rules book series by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, I also layer in my own strategies—the tips I share with private clients and that I followed, personally, to date for marriage.
These rules apply to any form of blind date, including those arranged by matchmakers or friends and family. When you have bad DZs, you want to give up on dating entirely; your self-esteem takes a hit and you start to feel that you will never meet the right guy.
Rule 5: After he suggests meeting, have him call you to finalize the date details.
On the surface, this call is about logistics and avoiding endless texts back and forth, but it is also a safety check. Always trust your instincts and quickly cancel the date if anything doesn’t seem right.
This is the kind of negative spiral my guidelines are designed to protect you against.
As some of you know, I met my own husband online and have coached many women to the altar through online dating alone.